“Too often we tend to focus on what we don’t have, as opposed to what we do have,” according to one student whose life was changed dramatically after he was struck by a reckless driver. “I want people to understand that life is a gift.”
He’d like to wake up, walk outside, and gaze at the blue sky, get into his car, and drive to the gym. But now he’s blind and all he can see is blackness, and there will never be a car in his driveway.
Music has helped Gabe recover from the devastating accident, which occurred a year after graduating from Rutgers University. Playing guitar helped him remain positive enough that he started speaking to groups, inspiring them with his story.
“Time is something you can never get back,” he says. “So if you have an opportunity, or a door opens, walk through it.”
He has given more than 60 talks throughout the state to juvenile delinquents, and middle and high school students, and whenever he speaks during an assembly, you can hear a pin drop.
He tells the students who can’t wait to get behind the wheel that crashes such as the one that left him blind can be prevented. He refuses to call it an accident because that implies it wasn’t the result of reckless behavior.
“Even though I’m very aware of what’s been taken away, I also see it as an opportunity to help save lives and to empower people.”
Except for his guitar playing—a passion that has ignited him since he was six years old—everything was taken away in an instant by a teenager celebrating the last day of high school. But a door was opened. A new opportunity was presented that wouldn’t have been there before.
“Considering that in four and a half years so much has happened, who knows where this is going to go?” says Gabe.